Saturday, July 25, 2015

#Managingblessings



Being real now, we all have “those” days.  The days where the kids get up an hour earlier than they should (of course after being up an hour too late the night before,) within the first 20 minutes of being up, you have to deal with spilled milk, a potty accident, and if you are like me, a dog crisis.  Those days when just nothing seems to go the way that you anticipated when you went to sleep the night before.  And deep down, ok maybe not so deep down sometimes, we wish we could just pull a Dorothy, click our heels together and be transported away to some fairy world with munchkins…as long as they aren’t our munchkins!  People…I have these days…and if you are a real person, I’m sure you have these days too.

A few weeks ago, a friend had posted this quote on Facebook that was taken from Lysa Terkeurst.   


 

 

It hit me.  Hard.  I can be really good at seeing the bad in a day, and not focusing on all of our giggles, peaceful playing times, and “I love you’s.”  Those words though…they.are.real.  These little people that I have, they are nothing but my own personal posse of blessings.  For me.  Every single day.  And I forget that altogether too often.  I realized I want to and need to change my negative mom attitude and focus on managing my blessings.  The reality is, right now this chaos may seem like it’s too much and unmanageable, but I know 20 years from now, when it’s just me and the Mister, (and maybe a dog or two,) that I will be wishing that I had more days like this…




Yes, you are seeing that correctly.  That is a naked Barbie in decorative grass.  I will miss these days.  I honestly believe that right now, in this crazy, beautiful mess we are in, that these are the absolute best years of my life.  From now on, I vow to focus on managing my blessings, and forgetting about things like spilled milk.  Because one day, not too long from now, I’ll be wishing that I'd see that Barbie without the clothes on, stuck in my decorative grass, and she won’t be there.

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

A little late

No excuses...we've just been plain busy!  First I was going to start back up after 6 months home, then I thought, let's wait until his birthday...then vacation...and that was Memorial Day.  It's now..ahem...the 4th of July?!?!?  What???  Time has flown by!  A friend actually said to me the other day, "Can you believe in 4 months, you guys will have been home for a year?"  No, I absolutely CANNOT believe that!  Where has this year even gone?  Well I'm not sure I can even begin to summarize what we have been doing the last few months, but here it goes...

Our little man is still doing amazing!  Therapy is going great, we did get a brace for his wrist that we try to wear as much as possible, and we are working on AFO's for his feet.  He is speaking more and more English every day, and just loving life!  He is a huge fan of Big Hero 6, so I think we have acquired every.single.item sold related to the movie.  He has also turned into the kid who has a drawer of 30 t shirts, but chooses to wear the same one every day...yes, his Baymax shirt!  Neither of the other kiddos ever had such an obsession with one item of clothing, which can drive me crazy, but deep down inside I think it's cute!  We have discovered he also LOVES swimming and the water.  He could swim all day, everyday I think! 

We had a pretty intimate birthday party this year for him.  We didn't want to overwhelm him, and I think it was for the best.  A few weeks after his birthday, we headed south to a family wedding in New Orleans, but not without a quick stopover in Destin.  SOOOOO glad we decided to be crazies and take the gang to Florida!  They had a blast playing in the ocean, even though it was only for two days!  Can't wait to go back!  The look on their little faces was priceless! 

We went up to Michigan for the 4th, and go to spend time at my parent's cottage.  The kids all loved it, but the little man just couldn't get enough.   He even went tubing for the first time and LOVED it!  He kept saying, "Faster, faster!"  He's my little daredevil for sure!  We have a few more fun things planned for the crew this summer before it's time to head back to school.  The two littles will be off to preschool part-time this year...sniff sniff!  Yes, I will be hysterical I'm sure, but I know they will be loving it! 




We have been so blessed this past year and have so much to be thankful for!